words Ma Jesus made me think hard when it states: "... we should act as your index finger but sometimes things do not are so easy. "
First I must say that this act calmly does not happen automatically. It is a process that begins when we decided to dry our tears and realize that the world keeps turning, our children are growing and while we are , parents, we want to stop time (or even backward), this will not happen.
recognition: "I have a child who needs me more than my other children" should take precedence over the denial or condition of depression that affects some more or less than others.
Yes, it is totally and absolutely true that we are not equipped to accommodate children with different characteristics.
In the prenatal count the days, months, to take our arms to the fruit of our love.
took us forever to choose the name. When we learn to be male or female, we rush to buy blue or pink clothes.
dream awake with the first steps, first birthdays, first words ...
Why, then, these feelings arise? Because we find it difficult to recognize that we too can be parents of a child with special needs. We
educated to be competitive, successful, brilliant. Many of us may have fancy titles or be in charge of the administration of recognized companies.
is not, then an issue of ignorance, but of ignorance.
We fear what we know and is not valid.
is natural that doubts arise and even questions.
But it must not allow is that they join us for life.
I know many people who have children over 30 or 40 years and have wasted valuable time lamenting and suffering for something that is irreversible. Do you want to be you too?
With this I mean that you are aware that up to you that your child's condition changes.
It depends on you to stay at home, hidden or that the world enjoy it.
try to understand and express my respect for those parents who feel that even now bear a burden, but the urge to change their attitude.
A gift them my experiences and say that it is impossible to provide quality of life for our families.
They invite you to take time, during the day to turn our gaze to his daughter or son and wrap it with his love.
Remember:
- were two who decided to be born.
- He did not choose to have a disability.
- does not help to blame.
- Our child will grow have the disability you have (It is false that "the little children
eternal", so it is important to respect their mental age but also their chronological age).
In summary, our children have feelings, needs, interests, expectations and dreams.
For them we must strengthen ourselves as a family and involve all members in this process, feeling that we all contribute.
return in a short time, we note our own growth. We will be better human beings and victims spend winners.
assure you.
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