REPORTING TO GRANDPARENTS DES-caring for siblings II
is likely that, after 12 years, the brothers presented similar sentiments to those of their parents when they receive the diagnosis. It is important to provide more detailed information, share readings related to the topic or participate in groups of siblings, and even received specialized professional guidance.
In any case, whether a toddler or a teenager, the brother of a disabled child may feel relegated to the care specific to the condition of the new family member.
The biggest challenge during the first half year is to stay calm and family balance. Components providing all the time and the importance that they require.
This responsibility usually falls on the mother. However, there should be a concern of one person, it could become a heavy burden and we know that caring for a newborn is stressful enough to lose patience and good cheer.
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Friday, February 13, 2009
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DES-caring for siblings
The attention that requires a disabled child can distract our attention and cause an imbalance in the relationship with our other children. As this is a fact involuntary, it is likely that we do not realize when it happens.
This could generate-with good reason, emotional tension, which can be overcome in time, but also risks that may leave marks more or less profound between parents and children.
Include them in family activities without distinction is a good practice. "He's not going to the party because he has mental retardation at home or let you use a wheelchair," are phrases that could have been frequent in recent past.
is good to know that the new generation of parents is much more comprehensive and modern families are more inclusive.
Returning to the theme of the brothers. A child under three years is too young to understand what is happening with your baby brother, we must be careful about our attitudes. A gloomy weather, with broken phrases when you see a baby can cause a state of confusion in the older child for whom the state will not go unnoticed by parental depression. Hide
not help feeling, so it will be very healthy for everyone to recover the good cheer and face with courage and poise a situation that is irreversible.
With more than three years, children can understand a basic explanation, if provided by both parents and baby's presence with disabilities. Please, in these circumstances, crying, tragic expressions or charges are excluded. It is clear that, previously, the couple has had to solve the first stage of confusion, to make way for full acceptance of your child with different abilities.
This could generate-with good reason, emotional tension, which can be overcome in time, but also risks that may leave marks more or less profound between parents and children.
Include them in family activities without distinction is a good practice. "He's not going to the party because he has mental retardation at home or let you use a wheelchair," are phrases that could have been frequent in recent past.
is good to know that the new generation of parents is much more comprehensive and modern families are more inclusive.
Returning to the theme of the brothers. A child under three years is too young to understand what is happening with your baby brother, we must be careful about our attitudes. A gloomy weather, with broken phrases when you see a baby can cause a state of confusion in the older child for whom the state will not go unnoticed by parental depression. Hide
not help feeling, so it will be very healthy for everyone to recover the good cheer and face with courage and poise a situation that is irreversible.
With more than three years, children can understand a basic explanation, if provided by both parents and baby's presence with disabilities. Please, in these circumstances, crying, tragic expressions or charges are excluded. It is clear that, previously, the couple has had to solve the first stage of confusion, to make way for full acceptance of your child with different abilities.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
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THE STAGE OF UNCERTAINTY
If we are not sufficiently prepared to be parents, much less will the ability to face the fact of receiving a different child.
me explain. In the best case, we worry about monthly monitoring of pregnancy, knowing the sex of our child, go to baby showers, buy the outfit and determine whether we will have a normal delivery or in the worst cases, a birth cesarean.
And then, full of happiness: Dream come true.
But the film may have a final and depends on us not turn our life, our dream into a nightmare.
is no denying the pain that afflicts us to receive a notice that creates a confusion of feelings, doubts, fears, and in some cases rejection.
Having a child with some type of disability is not in anyone's plans, making it impossible to prepare emotionally.
If we are not sufficiently prepared to be parents, much less will the ability to face the fact of receiving a different child.
me explain. In the best case, we worry about monthly monitoring of pregnancy, knowing the sex of our child, go to baby showers, buy the outfit and determine whether we will have a normal delivery or in the worst cases, a birth cesarean.
And then, full of happiness: Dream come true.
But the film may have a final and depends on us not turn our life, our dream into a nightmare.
is no denying the pain that afflicts us to receive a notice that creates a confusion of feelings, doubts, fears, and in some cases rejection.
Having a child with some type of disability is not in anyone's plans, making it impossible to prepare emotionally.
Therefore it is important to recognize that we are entitled to feel all those negative feelings that still do not stop being human.
have no shame to mourn and blankets in the love of our loved ones.
This is very liberating.
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